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Verbal De-escalation Training Series​

Updated: Dec 23, 2025


Welcome to the Verbal De-escalation Training Series

Conflict is inevitable, but violence is not. The ability to diffuse a volatile situation using only your words and demeanor is one of the most powerful skills in self-defense. Brought to you by the Center for Violence Prevention and Self Defense, this series is dedicated to the "Art of Verbal Jiu-Jitsu" teaching you how to navigate aggression and resolve hostility before it turns physical.

Verbal De-escalation Training Series​

This collection of resources covers the full spectrum of strategic communication, from the fundamentals of active listening and non-threatening body language to advanced techniques for handling enraged individuals.


Whether you are looking to master emotional control, understand the psychology of an aggressor, or learn the "5 D’s of Self-Defense," these articles provide a roadmap for turning tension into tranquility. Explore the modules below to learn how to lower the temperature of any confrontation and ensure safety for yourself and others.



  1. Learn The Art of Verbal Conflict De-escalation

  2. Top 10 De-escalation Tips Guide .PDF

  3. Three Techniques To Stop a Fight: Disengagement, De-escalation, and Deterrence

  4. Mitigating the Risk of Escalation When You Are the Central Element in a Volatile Situation

  5. Personal Protective Stances and Tactics for Self Defense and Violence Prevention

  6. What Are The Five Stages of Violent Crime And How To Disrupt Them From Occurring

  7. Contact Management in Self-Defense: Reading Visual Cues to Stay Safe

  8. Navigating Use of Force Scenarios: A Guide to Self-Defense

  9. An Argument Against Fight Posturing: Understanding the Dangers Before an Assault

  10. Adaptable Mindset: The Power of Principles in Self-Defense Training

  11. Self-Defense Strategies for Smaller Individuals

  12. Conclusion- There Are No Certainties Only Probabilities-The Nature Of Violence Prevention And Self Defense



About the Author: William DeMuth

About the Author: William DeMuth is the Director of Training at the Center for Violence Prevention and Self Defense (CVPSD) in Freehold, NJ. With over 30 years of research in violence dynamics and personal safety, William specializes in evidence-based training that bridges the gap between martial arts and real-world conflict resolution. He holds advanced certifications and has trained under diverse industry leaders including Lt. Col. Dave Grossman and Craig Douglas (ShivWorks), and is the architect of the ConflictIQ™ program. He actively trains civilians, healthcare workers, and corporate teams in situational awareness and de-escalation strategies.

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